Sometimes, I feel desperation energy of ME, ME, ME, ME from some people who want a reading. Desperation mode is not a receptive mode. That energy tells me that someone wants change or thinks they want change so so so badly. But what they want is someone like me to make this change or they want to read a book or take a pill that magically changes their world in a snap.
There’s no magic pill
It doesn’t fucking work that way. You are a human being! Change doesn’t always come easy. Change comes from lessons and gaining perspective. Sometimes, you have to get out of your comfort zone. Actually, quite often, you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone. That doesn’t mean it’s painful. That doesn’t mean you’re going to bleed. You may cry but then you will usually end up crying tears of joy because you overcame something. You overcame a struggle, you overcame an obstacle, you understood the lesson and you were able to grow from that.
Stop the cycle of desperation
People don’t understand that you aren’t handed a deck of cards with all of your answers in it. The Universe doesn’t just give you what you want. The Universe doesn’t just tell you, “Oh, you want to channel like Danielle? Okay, here’s your gift.” It doesn’t work that way.
I earned this. I worked my ass off to get where I am. I kept going ‘there,’ digging deeper into myself, digging deeper into my darkness. I even flew to Peru to go ‘there.’ I even went to hell, spiritually. I’m not even shitting you. I went to hell in this lifetime. It was the most euphoric and the fucking scariest experience I’ve ever had but I was going to do whatever it took to get out of the darkness and learn how to live in the light. Whether or not you live in the light is a choice that you too get to make.
Put in the work
I spent most of my life playing the victim, blaming everyone else, expecting the worst from my life, expecting life to always be hard. I wanted change so I DID SOMETHING. If you want change, you have to DO SOMETHING! So many times, I work with someone who tells me they desire change and I literally give them the fucking answer. I tell them what to do to take action. I tell them to do this when they feel like this. Then they still say, “I’m stuck; nothing is happening.” I have to ask them, “Well, have you done the work? Have you done what I’ve told you to do?” I should never hear the word no but I do. You have to put in the work. If you want things to change, you have to do something different.
You can do this
I know it can be hard as shit. I know there are times you want to cry in the corner and curl into the fetal position. Acknowledge those feelings of sadness but don’t dwell on them. When you dwell on them, you act from a low vibration. Then, all you manifest from this desperation vibration is more shit. Focus on the one thing that is good in your life. Get your energy from that one thing. You know the song that says, “I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one?” Well, you may have 99 problems but there’s that one thing that is amazing so focus on that.
You’re all you need
You get to choose whether or not you want to change. You get to choose whether or not you’re happy. You get to choose whether or not you step out of your comfort zone and cause change. Any amount of change, any amount of progress is a good thing.